June, 2016 | The Female Grail with Durga Holzhauser
June, 2016

Why positive affirmations don’t work

Why They have the opposite effect, or just don’t have the desired result

 

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#CHANGEMAKER

When you dutifully recite a positive affirmation like “I have wealth and abundance“ yet money still refuses to come, or “I am purely healthy“ but sickness still takes all your energy and there is no cure, it’s easy to see that something is not working.

Lately I have been highly inspired by a new mantra I adore: “I am happy, I am love, I am light.” Yes, it vibrates superhigh.

When other people started to meditate on it suddenly the other side of the light popped up like the hidden shadows were waiting in the dark.

This has been on my mind for a long time.

If we try to boost low energy with super high voltage in one jump, it seems to backfire.

The solution became evident to me when I read the book “POWER VS FORCE” by David R Hawkins.

He started to test attitudes: their vibrations, their energy vibrations. He started to demonstrate that change takes place when something (or more precisely, somebody) vibrates at a higher frequency. In his world, everything that vibrates below 200 will pull down consciousness, will pull energy and frequency down, and change is not possible.

So if you want to shift your life into a higher vibration, and ultimately attract higher vibration-like effects, you need to go step by step.

Let me show you the steps, so you know precisely what to do in order to shift.

First realize, acknowledge, and accept the state of mind that needs to be shifted. Find out exactly where you are. Don’t be timid or bashful here.

For example, if you are stuck in fear, it will not help to affirm that “I’m fearless.” That’s simply not the case. Instead, have a look at the next step needed to take move yourself one step further.

This may be COURAGE or TRUST or HOPE. It will be very personal but your inner wisdom will guide you and your body resonance.

Now you may go one step further and choose FORGIVENESS or UNDERSTANDING or ACCEPTANCE.

When this takes you deeper, you can move on to step four: LOVE or JOY or PEACE.

Here are the levels, for your reference:

Step one

the lowest energies, the lowest vibration
shame, fear,  blame, guilt, hopelessness, despair, grief, regret, anxiety, indifference, demanding, pride, anger, sickness.

Step two

the words of rising energies
courage, affirmation, empowerment, permission, release, trust, intention, optimism, inspiration, hope

Step three

the words of change
forgiveness, acceptance,  harmony, mercy, understanding, reason, meaning, wisdom

Step four

the words and vibration of a changed consciousness
joy, one, bliss, peace, illumination, all being, self, is, pure consciousness, love.

If you want to shift go in tiny steps of consciousness and you will build resilience.

 

Let me know: how does this sound to you?

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What is the scent of your future? 

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Photo from Topit.me

Because we can smell it more than we know.

Some weeks ago I attended a fascinating workshop, “Awakening our Senses.” I was taken into a world of seeing thoughts, smelling the signature scents of peoples’ souls, tasting ideas and listening to the sounds of love.

Even a participant’s future shop became a potpourri of taste and texture, all available just from seeing an image of the invitations to her future clients.

That inspired me: what if we go deeper within ourselves to create the future; if we come to deeper inspiration through our senses?

I started to play with my own sensory intelligence.

Our world is not only to be seen, but also to be felt, smelled, tasted, and heard.twitter

After the era of renunciation we are now diving into the age of sensual spirituality.

Consider:

Where the feminine is disregarded or cut out of the spiritual experience, it shows up as a gap of sensuality. A lack of honoring the five senses and sacredness of the body. That’s what’s lost. 

We are left with an imbalanced relationship between the earth and our lives on it. When we invite the feminine back into our lives (this is actually true for men and for women) we awaken to a more sensual spiritual path, with benefits to our emotions, our sexuality, the possibility of living more fully and richly.

We need to see the future.
We need to feel the future.
We need to make contact with the future, with our fingertips.

Ask yourself:

What is the scent of your future?
How does your future sound?
What does your future feel like?

The poetry of my future composed this :

My future smells like caramel and red Bordeaux wine. A promise to feel comfortable at the fire with the best friends of my life.

My future sounds like a compilation of all sounds of happiness digitized and edited as one. A symphony of sonic joy.

My future feels like the touch of wet earth after a heavy rain, so touchable, so drunk on life.

My future has the taste of a late summer evening: my impregnated dreams of eating together, laughing together, crying together and gathering together. Forever.  For nearness for friendship.

And yours?

Share it in the comments below. Let us be part of the surfaces, scents, flavors and full awareness of life. What we feel will come true.

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INVITATION TO JOIN A SMALL GROUP WHO WILL PREMIERE MY UPCOMING BETA PROGRAM.

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Manifesting Your Soul: Your Soulvision for the Golden Age

If nothing works for you
the way it used to,
this may be for you.

We are standing at the gates of a new world. Now we may try to tap into the old structures, habits, ways of living and working that we’ve always relied on – only to find they seem old, somehow. Outdated. No longer quite right.

But we do not yet know the new. The universe reboots simultaneously as it activates.

There has never been a time like this before.

I know that the old does not fit you or your life anymore.

I know you have an inkling of something bigger. Or maybe, like many others, you are simply experiencing your life “falling apart.”

The fever of our souls activates our calling.
Now it’s important like never before to remember:
We dreamed this time together.

As you remember your Souldream, you awaken.

What there is to see:

There is a new vision for the Golden Age above you.

Above each of us is a golden matrix, a vision we have brought with us for this new world that we are all co-creating. The Golden Age is the age of awakening, love and peace, communities and new noble friendships.

This age can make you feel as if your life is falling apart, but on the contrary: it is the process whereby you awaken to your true self. 

What there is to know:

We prepared this life in heaven. We dreamed it before we came to earth. We are part of a collective dream. Remembering the soul dream we brought into this time of awakening will guide us to part of this new earth.

You need a vision to guide you through these times.
Your soul vision is your part of this new world.
Your soul vision is your mission.
Your soul vision is what you have decided with your soul.

What I offer you now:

To receive a vision of what will change in your world.
Discover: what is your part in the upcoming transformation?
Articulate: what is your mission?

How do I know?

I am a visionary and a modern mystic. I see ahead of time and see myself as a guide to the new shores. Now is the time we all have been waiting for, and our mission is to create a world of peace and happiness.

This program is for you if:

: you are searching for your life’s calling. You have the feeling you are here for a reason but do not know how to access it.

: you are successful and have reached a certain level of success, but you are missing a bigger cohesive vision that will glue it all together.

: you feel like your life is falling apart and you need a vision that will save you.

you live in fear amid this shaking, insecure world and you need a vision that carries you on and navigates you into the future. (Fear only can thrive on a ground that lacks a soulmission.)

The program

My sacred 7-week process will guide you into your soul vision and birth it into life. 

Every week, you will be given an assignment designed by me personally. I will be there with you throughout the entire program to support you on your journey and make sure you arrive.

1: Preparation
Declutter emotions and thoughts and dive into stillness. Learn how to enter the Alpha State and clearly receive the impulses of your soul.

2: Dive into your Soulvision for this Golden Age
Through a guided meditation I will guide you directly there and show you how to download it in a very creative process.

3: Embody your Soulvision
When we embody it, our Soulvision becomes real. People feel our vibration. We use art to unblock the creative DNA in a sensual, ritualistic approach to spirituality.

4: Vision & Chakras
Visions land in your chakras and germinate there. But more important is this: where they land will tell you something about the essence/quality we want to manifest.

5: Dream Reality
The power of imagination. Dreaming is an essential life force. When we are not able to dream we are not able to create.

6: Stay on the frequency of your Soulvision
When we vibrate at the right frequency we allure the right people and right opportunities. We need to detox and learn how to become a lighthouse.

7: Share your Soulvision
Talk about it. Tell the story and invite people to be part of it. Project it in the world and walk into it.

What I also know:

We are at the gates of a new Age.
We are the ones that will change the world.
We have to awaken and lead.

This is why I developed this program: for you to remember what you prepared for this time.

Why not before now? 

Because before now everything was preparation.
Now we are ready to wake up and remember our souldream and take leadership.
This dream will help us to create the new paradigm.

Are you ready to remember?
Are you ready to create the new?
Are you ready to lead?

I am your spiritual leader to help you.

Price and schedule

€399 for Beta Program, billed if you are accepted into the program

(Conversion varies day by day, approximately $450 USD.)

The 7-week program begins June 20. You will receive course materials each week and have access to a weekly live webinar with Durga.

How to apply

There is room for 7 more people in the program, and these spots are for people who are seriously committed.
As noted above, this is my Beta program, the first time I am offering this material in this way. We will learn from each other along the way.

I would love to see you there. 

If you are interested, please fill out the short questions below.

Your Name
Your Email Address
In a few sentences, please describe your current life situation. What are you doing; what line of business are you in?
Do you believe that we have a purpose? Would you like to say anything more about that?
Is there anything you would like me to know about you?
Do you have a feeling you’re standing in front of a new door or a new world somehow?
Why are you interested in this program, why now? What is your heart whispering to you about this?


The Leaders of the Future:  Leaders of the Heart 

The return to love is the signature of our future leaders.

And their leadership is visible in the centering of their heart chakra.

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The heart carries a different knowledge than the mind.

The mind is able to envision and imagine;

The heart knows.

Only the heart recognizes what is truly good for us and others.

Our heritage of the old world: 
We are all born with a wounded heart. The journey of its healing is the path to realizing the leadership we are meant for.

When we are willing to walk a path – no matter what it takes – to heal the pain in our hearts, we open the gates to build new communities and collaborations based on healthy, healed relationships.

To be clear, the healing of love takes place when heal the heart chakra and expand our love from there. And the heart chakra wants to expand, intensify and raise pure love.

The heart chakra stands for the fire of love, unconditional love, truth, wisdom, inner guidance and knowing.

The science of the heart chakra teaches us to (1) first find inner guidance rooted in our soul, then (2) access guidance from the divine aligned with the power of the light, and then (3) provide guidance to others on their own paths toward higher good.

The 3 diamonds of the heart

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:: Insight from inside 

The heart is our inner guidance; a temple where we find our sacred self.  Everything we need is within us. We can rely on ourselves and our spiritual gifts when we listen and trust our inner voice. The heart is one with the cosmic wisdom. All answers we are craving are within.

Divine guidance

:: She who leads must be willing to be led by the divine 

The heart chakra is the center of connection with a cosmic team. Make no mistake: your spiritual team guides and supports you every day of your life. We are guided by a bigger force, and the heart chakra is the inbox for their messages.

Give guidance and the space to love

:: Lead what you are meant to lead 

The love of the heart cares and unites, so the heart chakra can lead and guide others until they find their own inner compass. The pattern for future  collaborations and communities beyond calculation or ego-driven aims lays here, waiting to be decoded. As our old world falls apart, and while the new creation is yet unknown, we need to dive into our heart chakra to find the answers and then take the risk to dare it.

Heart chakras can be found in physical spaces too.

As an ACC Feng Shui Teacher, my role is to train my people to locate the living chakras in their buildings and physical spaces. When I consult with my leadership clients on where to put their desk, for example, I always place it in the space’s heart chakra, in support of her leadership.

For many years I experienced the difference it makes when the leaders are centered in the heart chakra of their companies. They lead their teams and business with love. If they’re centered elsewhere, results are not so positive. For example if leaders are based in the front chakra, often the leadership assumes the form of control rather than collaboration.

(I offer these scanning and consulting services remotely; contact me for more information or to schedule your consultation.)

All in all, we are about to heal our inner hearts.

We first heal ourselves.
Then we help our teams to heal.
Then we heal our environment.
Then we come out and share our story.

This is how leaders of the future will change this world with their love.

Mark my words.

 

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