Category: evolution & future trends


When I started to wonder about the visibility of what we think and feel, I began to see – but mostly smell – myself and others (this is sometimes how I perceive energies). Though invisible to most, I saw thoughts coming out like bubbles from the solar plexus, or cloudy blue impregnable castles around the front chakra, or golden peaceful streams of Buddha-like emanations.

I became curious and playful.

What if…

What if I start to follow my thoughts and spy on what they look like?

Thoughts can be golden honey running down your body like an orgasm.
Thoughts can be sharp knives, cutting and puncturing.
Thoughts can go retrograde and push us around like thunderbirds.
Or thoughts can pull down energies till everything just sucks.

What we think has sound; the waves reach beyond distance.
What we think is perfumed with soul. The scent of thoughts can be like fresh heaven, fertile earth or the stink of disconnection.

What we think colors our orientation.
What we think creates thought-fabrics with patterns and shapes, like a second skin in our astral aura ornamented with personal tattoos. These are powerful symbols.

Thoughts are powerful vibrations we send out into this world. twitter

What if…

What if we use thoughts as potions?

We send thoughts out into the world like an armed dragon, riding upon the waves of chaos and through color explosions amid the greyish collective clouds of sad energies.

How to turn your thoughts into beautiful blossoms.
Make potions for a better life.

Find yourself in a delirium of soul-awakening scents, pulling them down. Let their color orient your life. Sniff around for the fragrance of the way you want your thoughts to make you feel.

for the
What is the perfume and the color? Dive into the fairyland of hibiscus summer nights, heavy oriental Indian summer evenings, fresh drizzling grassland and ask the kingdom of beyond for a Remedy that make you feel good, successful, abundant.

Feel around for the sensuously pervasive experience of conjuring up the burning, earthy, airy and liquid thoughts leading to a great creation. Choose thoughts that roll with your desired state for goal setting.

Start the movement with me.

My money thoughts smell like pollen tickling my nose, freshly fallen from the fragranced sari of Lakshmi. twitter

My money thoughts smell like roses and amber. Breathe in, break the barriers. Go free. twitter

My spiritual thoughts smell like premium red Bordeaux wine, filled with red obsession. twitter

My perseverance thoughts smell like pineapple and cinnamon: warm, exotic and exquisite. twitter

My spiritual normcore (normal + hardcore) thoughts smell like woods, roots, rinds and fresh pine needles. My toes sink into the texture. twitter

My enlightening thoughts smell like uplifting citrus and euphoric clary sage. twitter

My loving thoughts smell like a clove + cinnamon + cardamom orgasm on my palate. twitter

My paradoxical thoughts smell like crystallized water, clearing my brain. twitter

My contradictory thoughts smell like geranium. I want to be seduced. twitter

“A gourmet mind protects from the poison of dark thoughts.”

Now tell me, beloved.

: I want my thoughts to feel like…



Where presence attracts,
That belongs to you.

I share my story
May it guide you to the place on earth
Where you shiver and your tears write:
“I never believed this would come true again.”

When you feel your life, you know things.
But you do not know exactly when they will happen.

When I first touched the earth of New Mexico four years ago my feet opened and channeled my soul into the earth. I poured my red light into her and connected with the fire in the center of the earth, streaming my warm blood through the genes of her body. Her fire kindles my roots and I am trusting, safe and at home in her body.

I felt healthy earth for the first time in my life.
Bow to the sacred indigenous that kept the ritual of healing.

The story

Agni and I took road trips to New Mexico, Arizona, Utah for years. The loose idea to buy land was always bearing on our mind. We drove from Santa Fe to Taos, from Albuquerque to Sedona shrugging our shoulders: No land felt like ours.

: 2014 January 24

I stand in a house for sale 15 minutes from Santa Fe, my head spinning in spaciousness of the future and I hear myself: “This place called us to come. This house wants us.” This house felt like my heart.

Two hours later I find Agni and myself on a ranch 35 minutes from Santa Fe with our brokers. “Can we have both?” I whisper in a trance. Agni walks up a little hill, and I recognize the power place of the ancestors blinking for us to come. I am on sacred land. All golden. I have come home to the vortex of my life. I am centered in my light. I am changed forever.

The land talks.
The ancestors spirit-dance and take me to an old time where they left sacred codes before leaving.

And from the hill came a voice:
“This is your land,” the earth spoke to Agni.
So he bought it.
The sacred land of the former Tano tribe, now the new beginning.

The events started weeks before.
When you come closer to the vortex of your life things align.

On Facebook, my favorite synchronicity source wherein I find everything that wants to find me, I see a post about an intricately carved cathedral cave near Santa Fe for sale. I forward it to Agni with a note: “Nice property. What about that one?”

What a beauty.

He responds with a note about another house for sale on the same website. My heart grasps the house in its imagination and pushed my head aside: “This is our house.” We recognized each other.

Some days later Agni sends me a photo of Amber, a broker: “This is our broker.” I know. Before we had even met her.

We had already planned our road trip the month before.
With no idea we had booked a new life.

We ask ourselves, what if we buy?
We answer: Then we will see.

Flash forward.

For three days after we find our home, I keep my secret.
Then a small note explodes on my Facebook timeline.

When you are centered in the vortex of your life people know it.
What belongs to you searches you out.

The new land

Santa Fe has opened my vision. It is my vision of a future society made of many tribes of different religions and beliefs that find co-existence and co-operation. It lives here already, busily bringing irreconcilables in life into a space where they all can exist in peace.

Sikhs, Buddhists, New Age prophets, Catholics, Protestants, Jews, Yoginis, Muslims all in a test tube in the clouds.

We start from Zero.
My life will bind South France and New Mexico.
Both vibrant red rocks older than the Himalayas.
We bring new air.

The day before I leave my first second-homeland encounter, my new friend Navjit Kandola says:
“Here you can be Durga.”


Born on sacred land in Santa Fe, NM on a sunny day:
Agni´s Shiva-Shakti Center.

A new lifetime experience awaits us.
January 26th 2014 04.00 a.m.


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I will be speaking about “realizing you.”
22, 23 February 2013

Women Shaping the Future of India
A Woman’s Leadership Event

Meet you in India. We’ll be rocking the future.
For more details click here.


Collaborate with
the spiritual world.
Quit overwhelm.

My daily lessons in Miracles.

“You do not trust us. But you push and control.
You are disconnected and so unproductive.”

My spirit guides were right. For days I had forced myself into deadlines for my Future Book program. My worst day was now my own personal Black Thursday. It was a hustle until the shock of freezing, hitting the dead end for creative fire and joy.

“So what? I have deadlines and the download of creativity is flooding me. Each time it gets more powerful and plentiful than I imagined.”

Aha. I know this pattern too well. I am tired of myself. I want to know how to change my anti-flow, the energy moving against the universal currency of the creation.

“We know your deadline. Who do you think creates and backs you up all the time?”

“You are working on my products, from the higher source?”

“All the time. We inspire the original genius behind all creations.”

“Oops. You mean business. So what is my part?”

“Create art. Perform beauty. Turn both into manifestation.”


“Your task is pleasure. Just take care of every detail. Search for God in there. OM-Joy.”


“Flow with the creation. Wait till ideas are ripe and then pick them.”

Silence. Honestly I was shaken and felt really stupid after all these years of spirit journey. How had I gotten trapped in my old pattern without any consciousness of what was happening? Each time my ambitious business goals come along I block out all my spiritual know-how. Fucking damn bold of me.

A breath. My Universal Sadhana reminder:

Standing stunned by vastness, moved by the immense majesty of the universal beauty. The ongoing activity, exploding creativity that permits even stars into existence.
Out of the stars everything comes forth: dynamic entities, they are born and even they die.
The circle of gravitational power, collapsing and creative, explosions natural and eternal. Atomic power shines and collapses inwards to become a black hole.
Deliver. The active pattern of creation itself is intrinsic. Life blossoms forward naturally. Inevitably. (Free from the Story of the Universe.)

Quitting overwhelm

I swallowed my Super-Detox-Anti-Anxiety-Stress-Relief Remedy.
In the days after listening deeply within, I flew with my intuition. I went back into synchronicity state.
I found Right timing for 2013.
I walked in my own writings (HOW TO HAVE FAITH IN SYNCHRONICITY TIMING).
Grace and miracles aligned and I finished all my work with time to spare.
So when creative flow is emerging, why stand in the way?

There is a big misunderstanding about living our divinity in this body.
And about what God really is.
I had to figure out answers for myself.
I had to make my own journey.

For your business goals: Flow.

We need schedules and plans in times of chaos. The beauty lies in rebirth. We create the new.

“Lay your dream at your feet.” – Agni

Make a list of all the things you need to do, then put it down in front of our Temple (or altar) and give it up to The Higher Source. Pray for it to be handled and cared for. Then take the most important things and fill them with joy and love, and forget the rest. Then flow onward and forward…continue this way. God shines in details.

…and if something decides not to be ready on deadline (what a strange expression!!!!), who cares?

I have practiced it even with my clients: “I’m sorry this is the state I arrived. The rest is in process, and you know what, nothing ever was not ready in ‘the right time.’”

May I introduce you to my personal spiritual team?

BABAJI: known from the AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A YOGI. He is the incarnation of Shiva, without boundaries. Last time he lived till 1984 in the Himalayas.
He is a killer of mind ideas and focuses on heart desires. He says karma yoga work is the solution of our age. Let’s rock it.

SAI BABA: He lived in South India and went into Samadhi in 2011. He appeared to me in my room when I was 25 and since then I have seen healings and miracles.
I dive into his aura when I want to be golden. He makes you feels abundant when working.

JESUS: Memoired personally by me in JESUS THE BOOK.
He is Christlove and bliss of fire. He has the best modern ideas, guaranteed.

Each one is a real Avatar, a creator.
This is the difference between them and other guides. These are God realized.
If you want their consulting, a real desire calling is sufficient. When you reach out to their heart, they will contact you.

So now ask yourself: Who are your spiritual guides?
Contact them and see: they really like entrepreneurial business ideas.
Tell them what you are up to. Their answers will come from all directions and the inner voice.

2013. This year start the trend and prove the genius of this collaboration.



Sound the alarm:
the stars are in position.

HOW TO FULFILL YOUR DESTINY? asks Oprah. She has a 30-day plan for finding your true purpose.

Here is my version.

In my work with visions I have seen that the best business and life-fulfilling ideas are born in the universe. After reading the Akasha for years, I now follow the footprints of great ideas backwards. We dream in heaven, and bring our inspiration down to Earth. Great masters tap their heavenly resources: Steve Jobs was highly connected, Einstein received his solution in a dream. Great and inspired books, fashion and music are all insights powered by the divine genius. When the big and small AHA moments occur, we feel connected to something greater. We are excited and our soul knows: the sacred fire jams. We are living on purpose and we are on track to our purpose.

When you are aligned with your vision from heaven, powers are with your soul.
You follow the universal bigger picture and it comes easily. When your creative fire burns, you feel soulful: powerful, passionate, free, incredibly useful, excited, inspired, one with God and the Universe. Love in action. Your favorite song keeps you going.

Vision your dream now.
Dream big. Dream bigger.
NO. Even bigger. Go. Stretch.
Dream authentic wholeness into your life.
Dream like you dreamed in heaven
before you came to earth.
Dream uninhibited and unchecked.
Dream without frontiers.
Heaven is online. When you blast through the ceiling
you are on soul level.


The stars are favorable. It’s a good time.
Start to think in new dimensions. Imagine a parallel world where everything is possible.
Silke Schäfer interprets the movement of the stars and their influence on our life. Let her newsletter inspire you and create real waves. The future you want to belong to is possible when you take full responsibility for your purpose.

“Pure creativity and obvious self-responsibility! In particular with a view to the year 2013 this is a remarkable time!

Turbulences, visions and miracles.

It already started wonderfully! Concurrent with the sun’s entrance into Scorpio on October 23, she activated the beautiful Neptune/Chiron-conjunction between October 23 and 28, meeting Saturn on the 25th and continuing on to Pluto until November 1. There are incredibly powerful awareness processes at work, and artistic-creative, intuitive endeavors or visions can become more frequent.

All projects that are supported by a strong desire (Neptune) can come true now. This particular stable constellation can realise (Saturn) dreams and visions (Neptune)! The two activated water signs Pisces and Scorpio allow with absolute certainty that pure potentiality is manifested. There are unprecedented opportunities in the air, making it possible to create paradises, if we have not previously given up!

Do something you’ve never done before! (Uranus in Aries) No matter if local, national or global. In the next 2.5 years it is specifically about finding our very own authenticity (Pluto in Capricorn) and leaving behind everything that we do not need for this new liveliness (Lunar Node / Saturn in Scorpio). Take full responsibility for your own talents – NOW. Then the letting becomes a dance. “… whirling, resting in my centre, I am joyfully a vibrant part of the whole …. and everything that is not centered flies away….” Now up to 2015, it is the biggest wake-up call of all time: The biggest wake-up call ever!

All previous rotten compromises can be dissolved when one acts decisively and crystal clearly. You should address your life goals NOW! And a lot of feminine energy is involved, which is supposed to be steered into a clear direction, so that healing takes place. Stop and be 100% determined. Then new doors will open.”

You can find Silke Schäfer’s monthly star news here.


I am mesmerized by this bible of new business, ever since the first read. I am have now read it 3 times. This was written in heaven, amid alluring creation.

Imagine a business world wherein competition is irrelevant and you own the market because you created it. You navigate upon open waters of businesses success. You cross beyond market boundaries and look to new opportunities, to places of no competition for evolutionary growth. You look for other industries, products and services that do not even exist yet.

You’re painting your imagination, the craziest ideas you can dream, onto creative canvas, a place where business goals are all experimental and crafted with wide strokes. You’re creating great content and love marks, living organisms comprised of mutually beneficial relationships, and you don’t worry about how many followers you have. Reaching behind existing demand is creation. It’s the common vision.

This is the way forward. Head-to-head ruthlessness is out. We’re looking for growth and new economics is the future fuel.
Bombs for a New Age revolution.
Green grass growing between the toes of the giants.

I am about to develop meditations on how to blue strategize? Interest when it will be ripe?

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Your Vision is your guiding star.
Focus on the big picture.

30 days or not. Eternity or one day. This is not what matters.
The universe thrives on fulfillment. You flow with your joy. Your vision will carry you.
You will come back and understand why you do what you do. It’s not the result of being famous or being a millionaire, but the assignment of love. The path to wholeness is bliss.

Born in heaven, she invites your genius to shine. She’s the one you wake up with and cannot wait to start the day. Yes, there are times when we have to navigate resistance, procrastination, blowbacks, obstacles and challenges.

Your vision is your GPS through the jungle of thoughts and emotions that hold you back. Your vision and your bliss will be your strength handbook when you are close to abandoning your dream. She will be the goddess who raises you up when you fail.

Reframe. Distill the essences.

Re-adjust. Improve. Let die. Redesign.
Even when you cannot know the great calling and see the big picture of success, flow with the calling of the instant. It’s enough to know only the next essential steps; the universe will carry the bigger picture. The universe is your business partner amid the joy of manifesting something greater.

Your visions will take you home.
Your soul’s dream is sacred.
The power is with you.

Write your future book now, and join me as I create mine alongside you. We’ll take the voyage across oceans together.



What if deadlines and “to-do-lists” are just the fossils of competition and strategic maps actually distort our control of the future?

Don’t get me wrong. Challenge is still our growth. Ambition is a fertile ground of passion. Our drive for improvement is current.

But what if the universe has a different steam of evolution?
When we try to force it, the universe usually comes up with something different. Yep.

What if daydreams, rather than deadlines, grow divine seeds?
Breeding ideas in stillness, dreaming from the infinite down to realization. What if staring senselessly into a hole in the trees and losing ourselves in the sky’s ocean of blue heavenly strategies is the source of creativity. Look, big ideas grow at the edges. When we stop wanting it all, it all begins. Vision takes shape in wild silence.

I tried it the other way. I perfected my planning tools and ran my agendas and appointments with rigorous discipline. I was on a superhero’s goal schedule. I ran this way for a month until I had to admit that I’d hit a dead end. I had nearly extinguished my creative fire. I had been more effective and immensely more productive before, when I was in the power of now and flowing with the universe.

Constant improvement exhausts our creativity. Get out of the way, I reminded myself. Better to make it even better than it needs to be.

Spaciousness is far more nourishing than “all.” Spaciousness is my soul’s currency. It’s the place where all art is born. “All” is cumbersome. KRIS CARR

For highest results,
slow precision.

Breath. Surrender means ‘to trust.’

To connect with something greater,
create something greater for yourself.

What if we choose to move with synchronicity? To stretch beyond the imaginable, to the wonder.


Your antennas have grown sensitive. You have learned to sense the signals.

What is difficult is to decrypt the message. Perhaps synchronicity timing could guide us to meaning.

Seasoning the rhythm. Current.

Maybe ideas think themselves when they’re set free, only to come back to us as completed, coherent thoughts. We just need to grasp them and read them upon return. This is thinking without thinking. The voice without voice speaking to us in our dreams. The inspiration. Waiting for the right time.

Answers will come. Always. Promised. When ripe, the answers admit the stars.

Quality timing. For quality.

What if we don’t need to post endlessly on Facebook and Twitter, but go online precisely when the fate of real connection is also online. At a synchronized moment of great encounters, divinely-appointed timing that creates a whole world of possibility.

What if we do not have to pitch millions of times, but just once, at just the right time? The one pitch that is real and meant to be. We simply wait until our time has come, and then act and enter the greater space of meaningful manifestation of big dreams and making business with friends.

What if we already know how to create and prepare in sync with the universal energy flow? We wait quietly while ideas gestate in silence. We do not deliver before quality arrives. And we know our tribe waits too, patiently. Beyond rush. For the surprise of wonder you are followed, while your tribe awaits your prophesy.

What if we learn to coordinate our business strategic plan with the cosmic flow? The unshakable peace inside, a river knowing the ocean will never refuse her.

What if we wait for the right moment of revelation? Unripe action is wasted preparation.

What if we have patience for the ideas being thought by the spirits and accept that when the time comes, we will know? Then we will express great ideas in grace and gratitude. Easily.
Then we will win over cheap and worthless. We create meaning and a rhythm for quality success.

You get what you want: If not now, later.

I challenge myself to get better, great.
But no hustle, no thank you.
Swim against the stream.

Knowing my time will come.
Knowing our time will come.

The choice is as always yours.


W.I.N. 2012: I AM THERE.

I will be speaking about “realizing you.”
October 3-6

Annual global leadership conference
Make Space: Find Possibilities

Meet you in Rome. We’ll be rocking the future.
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Ambition is a fertilizer for the soul.
I walked on the edge and stretched my comfort zone.

I asked Danielle for an interview in a moment of spontaneous genius during my Fire Starter Session with her last May. She said yes. Danielle is one of the most shining women out there; a role model for generation Z: the Ultimates.

For me the motivation isn’t to put more glamorous people on my blog. No. I am insatiably curious and love a good conversation even more than a good party. I love questions and the enlightened deepening that comes from witnessing another’s depth. You know, the real questions. Based on desire.

It was my first interview ever!

We talked about Danielle’s new plans, her launch of YOUR DESIRE MAP in November, writing and philosophy, her current inspirations, her son, about light and…


Thank you,

Back to ambition:

Next time I will put 3 more cushions under my butt, take a preventive coaching with the super-gorgeous Bianca Filoteo to shake off my shyness. I will practice not blinking my sensitive eyes so much when the conversation is exciting. I will learn to project my ambition in happier ways.

Do you know that I write my inspiration and all my stories in English just to stretch myself? My mother tongue often would grant me more artistic arabesques. In speaking live here, I’m overstretching my circus-equilibrium of language to its “current.” (Hello to Danielle’s favorite word of the season!)

So, do you like it?

Do you like my curious questions?
Would you like more interviews?
I would love to bring more people-marvels
to my space for inspiration:
Authentic souls with bold opinions.

Please leave your thoughts below.
I receive them like beloved guests at my own personal party.



Mak’IN trails. Impressions of a festival of light.

Put new forms of spirituality in everyday life.
Just the beauty of light.
A moment of silence,
Something that can surprise you on a small
day-to-day level,
And that can touch you and make you feel:
It’s nice to be alive.

“You are the light. Take it into the wider world,” said Agni at the Lightfestival in the Chateau Amritabha. For the third time our team of eternal lovers of heaven and glitter had organized a fiesta for the luminescence.

This time it was different. Out of blue oceans and experience we created an event with blessings, sacred fires, music and joy. Our motto: divine love, nothing less.

Coming back to the most pure, we put our focus on our essence and on what really connects us: the power of our hearts. We recognize ourselves in the light of one another. We put all sales and marketing wizard tools aside and decided that relationships are the new pink. This soul day is sales-free.

Aurora Impressions

The light festival in Chateau Amritabha is one-of-a-kind in my tradition of Agni (the fire; I believe in light and fire). The festival brings together lightcenter leaders from all over the globe, from Sydney to Russia. It is a concert; a blessing of those who master the light; holy fire ceremonies for Agni, Shiva and Shakti; an experience of light and joyful life and more, many more blessings. All in a natural temple, on a beautiful old vortex in France. Fires burn all night and early morning meditations weave their magic. You sip cocktails with your friends and kiss the stars. It’s an ecstatic celebration of love.

My favorite moments

1. blissful explosions

Blessing each and all of you with my love; that you may have strength to love all the people you meet in your earthly life, and that you may give God’s love. We can do it better, we all know!

2. meeting you under your skin

I love encounters with souls from all over the world. I learn joyful devotions from Taiwanese folks, powerful hope from Greek folks, all that is possible from American folks, deep dark fire from the soul of Russian folks, hot truth from German folks and savoir vivre and senseless joy of French folks. I believe in learning and inspiration coming from global openness. Who are you under this lovely skin, dear soul?

3. sacred fire rituals

“When the fire is gone and the transformation is done,” said a Pujari from Haidakahn, (Babaji’s ashram) who had come to tell about the ashram, “what will stay is pure joy of life!”
Om Agni Jay! Om Shakti jay! Om Shiva Jay!

Me at the Shakti Fire ritual: Women meets sacredness in one another

You want to be a Shakti Fire priestess?
Read more about it here:

4. God’s breath made visible

I could not resist flirting with drumming, chanting and reciting mantras inspired by all religions and shamanic texts on living in sacred conversation with the earth. No matter their origin, tradition or religion, and without engagement; just spontaneous gatherings. Many observers were infected by the joy.

5. expand your light in a crowd

Accept your boundaries and lightful no’s. Feel like a star in this endless Universe. Among other stars you shine and when you need to feel yourself, you feel your boundaries.

6. daily new encounters of joy

“I want to love. I want to be in a relationship of trust and freedom. Unbounded in unconditional love. Stay with me; I will support you on your path and face the same direction,” said the bride and my friend at her spiritual wedding, and she was passionately kissed by her husband.

It was just wonderful.

The days after

I am highly inspired to write about illuminations in the cages of human bodies. I eat love.

I want to create innovative books on spirituality.

I want to sponsor illuminated lifestyle analysis of the concepts, colors and ways time is spent inside our communities, because as we claim:
there is no creation without aligned knowledge of God, and without design, our heavenly light cannot exist.

In this way, I will closely-knit interpretations of our societal evolution and the signals of universal tastes to come, without forgetting the sexy money reality.

I want to create dynamic networks that illuminate the world with art and inspiration and good business.

I will take my light and bring it to a wider, wilder world.
Meet you there.

You are the light of the world.
I am the light of the world.
We are the light of the world.
Said so. It is so.

See you there in 2013.



The sweet spot for money.

In our world what we do is paid with money. You crave money. And money craves you. In nature there is a natural attraction of magnetic enchantments. The power of money’s attraction is its many smells and tastes: sweetness, sealed dark roads or dirty secrets, perfumed elegance, diffuse phantasms or diamonds, lust or poverty, real fun or joy.

But straight from its source, money has no flavor. The taste comes with experience, that later turns into presumptions. And when it comes to the money talk, many languages of love end.

Exploding our universes and provoking new experiences of spirituality, we often end up in a dead end. I still believe that some have far too much money and are overdosed on acquisition and consumerism. Meanwhile, unacceptable circumstances in our world create masses of people who have not enough to eat or starve.

Money is often mixed up with value. My teacher Agni once said: “Nothing is cheaper than the things you can buy with money,” and the wisdom went straight underneath my skin. With life as our greatest master teacher, we embrace every moment of our experience and richen our unsatisfied souls.

This new world asks for balance and creates a new sphere of influence. Success on our own terms is the new path and will open new gates for enlightenment. Our business is our spiritual path, leaving behind old dynasties of ascetics’ monastic vows and religious labyrinths of poverty in the name of God’s realization.

But before you ask for money, make sure you walk the inner dangerous landscapes of your own lightness and darkness of value.

What is your relation with self-value?

How to peel off your (lizard) skin: radiate your worthiness with every cell of your individual value. Know that it will be found in self-love.

  1. Close your eyes and feel rich, no matter how filled your purse is. (I always feel amazingly rich, even with no money at all.) It is lifestyle shift that isn’t dependent upon “reality.” How does it feel?
  2. Feel your own worth. Underneath your skin and bones. It’s a strong one. It has nothing to do what your parents or anyone else has ever said about you. Pulsate that feeling and jam with it.
  3. Redefine your value and abolish self-built borders.
  4. Pricing is a feeling. Feel it inside your body. Does the number make you strong? Go ahead. Or weak? Then change it up and play! Offer priceless love. And ask: Who will pay this?
  5. The only passionate way to burn for what we do is to give it all. That includes not asking for a limited or partial exchange, but for the whole rich feeling of satisfied hunger.
  6. Share the gift of your individuality. Life offers endless opportunities to share your unique talents and gifts. We all have them, and the only reason we choose to not use them is because we have a little person in our head that says: ”You aren’t good enough. You don’t know what you’re doing.” Delete.
  7. Feel the price that it is worth: Increase your prices with your cajones and ovaries (original stolen words from Marie Forleo). Last week I had revival business with one of my best Feng Shui clients. His business expanded globally since I last worked with him. Sitting in front of him for the update to my work. I had a vision of a price that was more than 3 times what I usually asked. His lovely wife swallowed and he said; “You know it is strange, but this is the price and I am happy to pay you this money.” Great feeling! Amazing self-worth!
  8. Ask for your price without expectations. I did it not because I was greedy, but from the hunger of wanting to give it my all. I was keen to give my best and in this moment my whole body knew that for less I could only give less. That’s an ugly feeling. Asking for the right price attracts AHA moments and great feelings of value.
  9. Be ready to let it go. Underselling yourself is hard to recover from. Let the opportunity go if it would you require you to do so.
  10. Vanity is overvalued. I had a consultation with a true SEO genius. She insisted on charging $25 an hour so that she could be accessible to everyone. She met honor with honor. My persuasion could not melt her. Her self-pride defined her line of luxury.
  11. Too cheap is too expensive. My last workshop did not run. I wanted to make it affordable and priced it accordingly, but the contrary occurred. It fell into the lake. People said it was too cheap to fly all the way to South France for. My lesson learned.
  12. Delete this thought: “It is greedy to ask for too much.” Self-judgment is a killer. Remember: “You are worth it.”
  13. True and accurate self-estimation is killed by self-judgment. Stay earthly and grounded. You have nothing to lose except your own deception, because your dignity is untouchable.
  14. Taboos need to be broken. So do monastic and dogmatic self-beliefs. Vows of poverty only create belief in a bad guy. Release it all to the wind.
  15. Defining the true value of what you provide may cost you the growing pains of greatness. It’s worth it. Focus on creating more happiness, more health, more money, more and more.
  16. Generosity: Give what feels good. Give more if it feels better.
  17. Enough: Again and again. It’s your mantra to wholeness.
  18. Meditate on the power of giving and receiving.
  19. Radiate the rich feeling. Attraction is on its way. Tap into the fun factor on the spot. Otherwise it’s no fun!
  20. Money is alive. Feel the sensuous texture of business and money. It has its own perfume, its own style, own mood, own light and sound and taste. Caress money when it comes. Bless the donor and the money.
  21. Embrace collective value as a world’s citizen. Collective value is founded on renouncement and a culture of real luxury. Renounce buying a cheap toaster, for the sake of true value creation. Purchase handmade goods that have the value of duration. (I love 100-year guarantees.)
  22. And Love. What else?