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When you are at a blank page.

What is the value of these times and how to deal with it.

If you are at a blank page of the soul, like me, I made this video for you.

We encounter times like this because we are at a moment of clearing, purifying, and burning away what doesn’t belong to us. But the experience is irritating, and can be hard to stay patient.

But wait. I promise you, you’re rising now. We are all rising to what we really are.

Here’s my mantra to guide you through ::
I am satisfied.
I am content.
I am pleased.

Please watch the video for my complete guide to coming through these times.

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Guide to a Travel to Wholeness. The Power of Intention.

The New Mantra

I am.

I am the power of love.

I am the power of light.

I am the power of happiness.

I am the power of joy.

I am the power of peace.

I am the power of my soul.

#poweroflove #poweroflight #powerofpeace#powerofhappiness #powerofsoul #powerofjoy

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Read More · September 8, 2016 · · fiercely feminine, inspired truth

The cure for Pain

Travel to my Wholeness, Part Two

I am speaking to you today from Woodstock, a place known for its longings for peace.

And it is allowing me to discover a surprising antidote to pain in nature.

I’m calling you now too to wake up in aliveness. Find the places in yourself that are no longer living, and reclaim them. Be brave, and investigate every gap in yourself that is no longer alive, no longer whole. That’s where the pain is coming from, and that’s where you will find a cure.

 

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Travel to wholeness

surprises I AM encounterING on my own journey

I wonder, will you have the courage to go with me into a deeper spiritual world today? I hope you will.

My intention for my travel was: to encounter my wholeness.

Now I’ve been in the United States for three days, and in those days I’ve experienced three revelations about healing my own heart and how to walk through dark times. I didn’t know what I would find here, but today I want to tell you about my three steps to create a resilient future for those of us brave enough to walk through our own inner fires and shadows.

I am a spiritual guide, and I hope the path I walk will inspire yours.

 

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New love

My first love poem for dreaming the future

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Louise Bourgeois, “I Do”

I am enough for you and even more.
I am the fulfillment of your desire.
When we melt
our universes give birth
to new stars.

I am your fulfillment
and you are mine.

We are free together.

Our love inspires.
Our love ripples and gives more love.

We desire and miss each other.

We separate and travel in different directions.
and are pulled back into the womb of home.

We unite, we melt; we fly free.

There is no other for us than us.

We are sacred companions and travel time.

I am enough for you and even more.
You honor the goddess in me.
In her beauty you find yourself.

I stoke the fire in you.

You want me to be with you.
I want you to be with me.

In your divinity I burn and I rise.

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#FeminineFuture, Feminine Leadership & Business Concepts

You may have already felt that we are at the end of the road for the old masculine model of work and creation. You may have felt its effects too: lack of creativity, flexibility, motivation, burn out.

But I’m a visionary and I can see the energies streaming down to the earth, new ideas and new ways of working.

So what does the feminine creation look like? What does a new model of work and creativity require of us? Let me tell you now… It’s beautiful, this feminine future.

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Own your fear. Own your power to love your dream.

In my world, if you don’t investigate your inner wisdom and conquer your fears, we all pay a collective price. Every day now we see shadows and darkness that result from a cultural refusal to do this. So this week I talk seriously about the levels of fear that we all experience, and the promise of acknowledging fear as twin sister to your dreams. Because when you infuse your fear with love, when you befriend her, you become the most powerful change agent in your own life.

My name is Durga and I’m your guide to new dimensions. Let’s go.

 

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THE COMMUNICATION OF THE NEW FEMININE AND THE NEW MASCULINE

A vision of connection, to heal the little cells of the world

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: with the resilience of our truth

For too long the conversation between the feminine and masculine have collapsed, been distorted and lain fractured. They are still. Can we even measure the length of time through history that this has been so?

We all search for healing through an inner balance of Shiva, Shakti, and the world that surrounds us. But through the mists of time we forgot how peaceful balance could be attained.

Let’s re-open that inquiry; let’s allow the masculine and feminine to dance together in non-duality. I believe the future belongs to couples: the cell unit of families and the future, the inner Yin and Yang, the cooperation of women and men on a global level for the balance of the feminine and the masculine.

The holiest war that was ever fought was for love.
The love between man and woman.
This is where the story begins.

The War for Love
To meet each other in love and power
requires the ability to be vulnerable.

To be destroyed
by each other
is not playing fair.

But the risk not to dare
is risking death
from a loss of aliveness.

Courage begets freedom.twitter

For relationships to function on a personal, business and leadership level the real partnership, the essence of “we,” requires fierce courage to be genuinely truthful. It requires the end of lies, half-truths, compromises and silencing-down tactics.

If you want to be genuinely loved,

you must be willing to reveal yourself
and be open to the revelation of the other
with uncolored respect.

Beyond being hurt or insulted lie the real feelings and our deepest inner worlds. (Reaching that place is not easy, but it is possible if you want to rise together.)

Maybe the feminine and masculine were never actually meant to fit each other, but to force us to leave everything behind: abandon what we think we know about ourselves, the worlds, definitions and languages. Beyond narrow fields of visions, discovering and opening to a raw and untamed truth of what love used to mean. Maybe there is a fertile soil here for the future, amid the rationality of love.

Shakti (the divine feminine) and Shiva (the divine masculine) may never have fit together; never had the same preferences and loves and passions.

Meager compatibilities are just not enough for this cosmic love.

When love is based on expectations we place on each other, sooner or later it will fail when we don’t want to satisfy expectations anymore.

 

….. and this is not what the Universe ever intended.

A new vision for the communication
of the new feminine and the new masculine

A bold attitude and a headstrong position will take you further than open-sourced blandness. We need an uncompromising and directional stand towards the beloved, rather than just a sticky-sweet collaborative and conversational one.

Resilience grows when we can face the other without accusation or blame, and with both on board (the feminine and masculine), find a a common plan. Yes, you heard right.

Political correctness, take-it-or-leave-it ultimatums and a resistance to hard truths make it nearly impossible to articulate what we actually want from a relationship.

Instead, cultivate willingness to pull with the same strength through difficult times. Walk out on narcissistic patterns, habitual or persistent denial of problems, fights and power struggles designed to make the other small. Destabilizing the other’s self worth creates inappropriate, disrespectful hierarchy.

Let us avoid a utopian vision of the world of women and men. Instead let’s find the power and the good in friction and struggle.

How to behave in an uncertain world of women and men?

A compass for times after fleeting passions and lovebugs,
through the problems that will come up for sure,
because this is life.

woman + man

100% + 100%

Committed to love,
each deeply dare to encounter
the woman’s worlds
and the man’s worlds.

The power of the

feminine + masculine
is
meeting each other
encountering each other
from face to face
from bones to bones
from soul to soul
without destroying each other
without submitting to each other
without manipulating each other
without hurting each other

And here is my personal declaration of WHAT I STAND FOR: ruffled feathers. twitter

They are not a bad thing. Sometimes a good ruffling creates the most positive outcome.

The revelation of our most intimate thoughts is the antidote for boring, unimportant rubbish. The ability to open ourselves to expressing true fears, anxieties and desires will build self-assured intimacy.

And yes, it requires inner strength to grant access to one’s innermost feelings and thereby risk rejection.

But memorable, poignant, surprising experiences win out, increasing our emotional impact on each other. That aim is no longer wishy washy and “nice to have,” but an essential aspect of the real new feminine and the real new masculine.

the raw feminine + masculine

We are becoming rebellious. Tired of playing by the rules. We grow resilient when we face the truth without accusation or blame. We crave real encounters based on the incredible openness that comes from being open and truthful.

WE have to bear the challenge of loving the other fully in their truth;

to bear our darker fantasies and doubts about the other,
knowing our wounds cannot protect us
or gain us ground in self worth.

A good team is based on perceiving our autono-ME /I and

stabilizing it. Know your own weakness, fears, offenses, your own foolishness, and then step in.

We want to foster new visions of shared goals for the women and men in this world.

We want shared visions for the feminine and the masculine, for the new women and the new men, for the collective and vibrating truth, for the new shores of human fulfillment.

100% SHAKTI + 100% SHIVA

FOR A Vision
of a common

FUTURE.

 

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A GIFT FROM SABBATICAL

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A short love note.

I trust you know that you are on my mind always.

Behind the scenes we are joyfully developing what comes next in my universe.
For now, I have a small offering for you, in the spirit of the feminine leader initiated.

Do you remember the Gospel of Feminine Leadership? It’s a three-part series* offering 108 pearls for the balance of the feminine. It’s so vital that we thought we’d put them all together, easily compiled for your inspiration.

Wild love always,

Durga

Just click a button below to download your preferred format, PDF or PNG.

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*If you’d like to read the original series, here you go: Parts 1, 2, and 3.

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HOW TO QUIT PLAYING A ROLE THAT YOU ARE TIRED OF.

And why it makes a difference for living love and peace.

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Copyright @ Overgrowth

A simple do-it-yourself method to create non-attached relationships.

We want to love deeply and build peaceful temples for sweet relationships and communities. We cry out for liberated freedom. But what if we cannot do that soulful work? What if the fabric of the past is knotted up and we are constantly pulled back into annoying relationship dramas and desperate, predictable, painful endings? We may be triggered by a ball of thread that sends us back and back to places we do not want to be anymore. Frustration is the space where an unwatched play is played out anyway.

There is a fabric we brought with us to this lifetime that’s woven in our souls. Each remnant of our personal patchwork represents an aspect that we have not lived and fulfilled in past lives. It shapes our current life. It helps us to understand what we have not yet understood and accept what we have not yet fully accepted.

Here’s the good news: inside us there is fertile soil for total freedom. That freedom grows and flourishes in the non-attached parts of our soul. It will allow us to love how we want to love and circulate abundant peace.

Non-attachment is neither passionless apathy nor separation from the other. It means a new beginning; a chance to encounter each other in the land of our sensual, unburied soul. She loves without limits and drums her peace down to earth.

The non-attached space of ourselves is free to make choices. It is the third place beyond acting but being ourselves.

Attached relationship is: not being able to breathe in the presence of the other; to fall into rigid habits; to shut down our hearts; a monkey wrench in peace-making processes. Most attached or co-dependent relationships are populated by one dominant participant and one submissive participant. When we are in these positions, we play a role we cannot get out of.

Non-attached relationship is: liberation; total freedom to love, to be who we are, to change our situations. It is the space between us to hold sensual longings and horizons of playful possibility. It is the loving heart that’s freed from painful experiences and is not destined to repeat them.

Change Karma is the new patchwork we sew when we finally start to grow into the empty spaces, to master our growth, to weave the experience we want. All but the highest version of self can be blurred by energy that keeps us truly alive. The relationship or painful, destructive aspect in the relationship will cease.

It may signify the end of a relationship that kept you bonded and attached, but mostly it is a rebirth into new blossoming.

Loving your expansive freedom always allows you to navigate your inner compass. twitter

The Golden Eight by Phyllis Krystal

For decades I have used this simple method to protect my own spheres and territory without interfering or penetrating the space of the other.

Any time I feel my aura perturbed and stormy, dependent upon another person, institution or dynamic, I just imagine the golden eight and the neon light. I set my pace and continue until I find myself again.

It works for

: messy cooperation
: fraught ties with family members
: crazy outbursting love affairs
: reestablishing compromised boundaries
: balancing Shiva-Shakti
: a missing desired love in your life
: a missing desired aspect in your life

The method

Choose a person, dynamic or Institution/organization that dominates you. Think of somebody or something that traps you in an old pattern or paradigm.

It’s important to choose just one and not to bundle many together. You can do one after the other to smooth out and dissolve the knotted fabric.

Let your soul/higher self guide you.

You can imagine this or actually take two cushions and perform it on the floor.
You can stand or sit, whatever feels good.

Visualize a golden circle the size of your outstretched arms on the floor. Now visualize another circle that just touches your circle. In this second circle place the other person, dynamic or institution. Let her/it sit there. The circles should gently touch but not overlap one another.

Visualize a neon blue light coming like a ray from the source of all love, and it touches the circles and starts to circulate clockwise. First it flows from the center point and circles around your partner. Then it returns to the center point and flows around you behind your back, and returns again to the center point. Keep the light flowing in this pattern, creating a figure eight around you and the other.

method

Start to feel how aspects that don’t belong in your field pop up and return to their rightful place across from you. As this continues your aura gets spacious and clear. Let the eight circulate as long as needed until you feel liberated and free.

Then let the blue ray return with gratitude to the divine. Release the person, dynamic or institution with gratitude.

The application

For sticky cases, visualize it every morning and evening for two minutes.

You can do it when something has happened that disturbs your space and mood.

You can do it as a detox cure for 2 weeks.

You can do it as often you like.

The effects

: It will calm your space.
: It will help you to expand your light.
: It will make you feel good.
: Patterns come to love.
: Patterns come to peace.
: The divine takes you home.
: Your light shines.

The new world is created from a land of freedom. Your role is to shine your brilliance. twitter

I hope it will help you in these times. Let me know.


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