When things just wonâ€™t unfold.
How to decode a pattern of broken creation.
Motivation often arises from a dark place.
These hidden places may be unknown even to us, but they influence the outcome of our efforts.
Whatever we create, whatâ€™s hidden within will pull us back. Itâ€™s asking to be seen. In this sense, self-sabotage is ultimately grace. And to be honest, even that is an old fossil of ego fueled by feeling inferior or less than the world you really are.
The unseen Motivation
: Revenge: To pay back
: Trauma: We are in survival mode
: A Broken heart: Love has betrayed us
: Wounded: We turn the pain into terror
: Fear of Death: We try not to lose control
: Greed: A broken desire
: Addiction: We are hungry for a drug that never stills our hunger
The hidden unconscious sometimes pulls us into dependency on our loved ones, our family, our clients. Something is missing inside that we need to create from wholeness.
Healing the Roots
As we ride the waves of healing, we must face distorted patterns of the past. We are called to go back to the roots and use our potential to turn them into wisdom. We need to become whole for the new beginning.
As the old paradigm collapses and a new world of humanity dawns, success, fame, prosperity, and power will only be accessible by walking through the gates that heal the broken root. This hasnâ€™t been the case in the past, but it is the wave of the future that we evoke.
Go to the place of awakened awareness that eternally resides within you. Go into the depths to retrieve your self.
Ask: What is unconsciously driving my motivation?
Then look up for the new Motivation to bring it into a pattern of love, joy, light, peace and sacredness. Walk joyfully into the ecstasy of self-care and unconditional love.
the new mantra is..
Turn it into Gold
: Revenge: â€śI forgive you and set you free.â€ť
(feel the energy of release and fill yourself with love)
: Trauma: â€śI am in a place of safety. I am safe.â€ť
(feel the energy filling up the scarcity with golden light)
: A Broken heart: â€śI love myself deeply.â€ť
(feel the energy of release)
: Wounded: â€śThe light of love is making me whole.â€ť
(feel the energy of Christlight holding you)
: Fear of death:Â â€śI surrender to life.â€ť
(feel the love of the world beyond)
: Greed: â€śI let go of what is not really mine.â€ť
(feel the free space and fill it with yourself)
: Addiction : â€śI am nourished by love.â€ť
(feel the detox of illusion, drink a lot of pure water)
When a quest for spiritual alignment compels us to bring curiosity into the world of our true motivations, we are back on track.
photo by Schumata
Some weeks after the mastermind had finished, my friend said to me, â€śYou would be the better person to lead the meeting.â€ś
â€śNo I am not,â€ś I knew it.
â€śBut why? You are far more experienced and have more expertise than I do.â€ś
â€śBut still is you,â€ś I responded, â€śbecause the higher power is above you and not me.Â You are meant to lead this now, not me.â€ś
For years I have been able to see when someone is destined to lead the way. At the right time a person connects with the fabric of all creation, her frequency rises. A light appears above her like a guiding star signaling that itâ€™s her time to step in and lead. This is the moment when she must lean in.
All this changed my perspective about leadership.
I see influential leaders without guiding star energy, or whose energy extinguished long ago but are unwilling to pass on the reins. I see leaders who emanate power all the time and others who step back from the fire in agony. I see leaders who were meant to rise but reject the higher power above them.
Leadership is not about being bossy or being in control. (Pushing is overcommitting to the masculine.) My view on leadership showed me that a higher power is at play, working through a person for a short time to solve a certain problem, or through a longer period of change.
Leadership is not always being out in front. It can be top of the world for a while, then back among the team, allowing others to go ahead. Itâ€™s a flow.
A leader has the momentum of heroism: she is the person who takes on the responsibility to lead another person, group or community into a new solution.
Leadership is often mundane, and can be undertaken by anyone, even if they’re not recognized as a leader.
Great leaders inspire and create meaningful lasting opportunities and new ways of thinking. They believe in change. They have an impact on the future. Great leaders are connected with their soul purpose and know when the calling is theirs. They sit up in the right moment and blaze ahead beyond fear, beyond worry, unfettered by what other people think.
Because their soul dream is active, leading is never about them; it’s always about their people.
Soulful leadership comes from the belief that you and your team are made for something special at this precise time. It is the ability to inspire excellence in others, to encourage them to follow their own soul visions, and raise them up to a synchronous level of a soul dream.
Over time I also started to recognize that when a soul dream is activated but the person refuses to lead, things careen in wrong directions, or others have to step in and rescue the moment. Some people are addicted to leadership and take over all the time. Burn out begins here, when people are not supported by the universal flow of power. And when we do not support the one who is destined to lead, we lose the wisdom resources within our teams and we all lose the possibility to make the incredible possible.
Start to ask yourself:
When is the higher force above you?
When is your time to lead?
Start to witness:
When is the higher force above another person?
How can you support them?
Take a lead when the higher force is above you. Support soulful leaders when itâ€™s their time.
Our times need many things. We need better bread, better kindergarten, better politics, better women rights, better water solutions, better social engagement, better timing, better structures, better relations to life and earth.
To access whatâ€™s needed, we start with better leadership.
Leadership with soul makes a difference.
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We are at the portal of a new Age. Behind us is the Dark Age of Kali Yuga, wherein creation was bonded to a survival-based fear of separation.
But the new Age is now right in front of us and we are called to create new space.
Timeless and cosmic happiness can be found, but not as we think.
It is not to be pursued.
The french philosopher Frederic Lenoir says that happiness does not depend on circumstances, but our capacity to work on it.
What will grant us long lasting happiness is to know ourselves and to work on our self-knowledge.
We can learn about our true selves beyond culture and educational schemas. Every moment is a sacred offering to become who you are when we are open to awareness.
Welcome to your conquest of happiness.
Think about a turning point this week, and our mantra is â€śhappiness.â€ťÂ Letâ€™s consciously cultivate little acts of happiness this week and wake up our endorphins.
One conscious conquest week of Happiness
For one week, take this diary out before bed and let it do its magic.
Fill in your insights and let them work for you. Take your conquest of happiness into your sleep. You will see, it can work true wonders.
No matter where we stand now, letâ€™s start breeding the future culture, a happier culture. The full moon eclipse gives us plenty to work with; the rest is up to us.
Raise up your unreasonable happiness. I wish this for you.
With wild love,
A vision of connection, to heal the little cells of the world
: with the resilience of our truth
For too long the conversation between the feminine and masculine have collapsed, been distorted and lain fractured. They are still. Can we even measure the length of time through history that this has been so?
We all search for healing through an inner balance of Shiva, Shakti, and the world that surrounds us. But through the mists of time we forgot how peaceful balance could be attained.
Let’s re-open that inquiry; let’s allow the masculine and feminine to dance together in non-duality. I believe the future belongs to couples: the cell unit of families and the future, the inner Yin and Yang, the cooperation of women and men on a global level for the balance of the feminine and the masculine.
The holiest war that was ever fought was for love.
The love between man and woman.
This is where the story begins.
The War for Love
To meet each other in love and power
requires the ability to be vulnerable.
To be destroyed
by each other
is not playing fair.
But the risk not to dare
is risking death
from a loss of aliveness.
For relationships to function on a personal, business and leadership level the real partnership, the essence of â€śwe,â€ť requires fierce courage to be genuinely truthful. It requires the end of lies, half-truths, compromises and silencing-down tactics.
If you want to be genuinely loved,
you must be willing to reveal yourself
and be open to the revelation of the other
with uncolored respect.
Beyond being hurt or insulted lie the real feelings and our deepest inner worlds. (Reaching that place is not easy, but it is possible if you want to rise together.)
Maybe the feminine and masculine were never actually meant to fit each other, but to force us to leave everything behind: abandon what we think we know about ourselves, the worlds, definitions and languages. Beyond narrow fields of visions, discovering and opening to a raw and untamed truth of what love used to mean. Maybe there is a fertile soil here for the future, amid the rationality of love.
Shakti (the divine feminine) and Shiva (the divine masculine) may never have fit together; never had the same preferences and loves and passions.
Meager compatibilities are just not enough for this cosmic love.
When love is based on expectations we place on each other, sooner or later it will fail when we donâ€™t want to satisfy expectations anymore.
â€¦.. and this is not what the Universe ever intended.
A new vision for the communication
of the new feminine and the new masculine
A bold attitude and a headstrong position will take you further than open-sourced blandness. We need an uncompromising and directional stand towards the beloved, rather than just a sticky-sweet collaborative and conversational one.
Resilience grows when we can face the other without accusation or blame, and with both on board (the feminine and masculine), find a a common plan. Yes, you heard right.
Political correctness, take-it-or-leave-it ultimatums and a resistance to hard truths make it nearly impossible to articulate what we actually want from a relationship.
Instead, cultivate willingness to pull with the same strength through difficult times. Walk out on narcissistic patterns, habitual or persistent denial of problems, fights and power struggles designed to make the other small. Destabilizing the otherâ€™s self worth creates inappropriate, disrespectful hierarchy.
Let us avoid a utopian vision of the world of women and men. Instead letâ€™s find the power and the good in friction and struggle.
How to behave in an uncertain world of women and men?
A compass for times after fleeting passions and lovebugs,
through the problems that will come up for sure,
because this is life.
woman + man
100% + 100%
Committed to love,
each deeply dare to encounter
the womanâ€™s worlds
and the manâ€™s worlds.
The power of the
feminine + masculine
meeting each other
encountering each other
from face to face
from bones to bones
from soul to soul
without destroying each other
without submitting to each other
without manipulating each other
without hurting each other
They are not a bad thing. Sometimes a good ruffling creates the most positive outcome.
The revelation of our most intimate thoughts is the antidote for boring, unimportant rubbish. The ability to open ourselves to expressing true fears, anxieties and desires will build self-assured intimacy.
And yes, it requires inner strength to grant access to oneâ€™s innermost feelings and thereby risk rejection.
But memorable, poignant, surprising experiences win out, increasing our emotional impact on each other. That aim is no longer wishy washy and â€śnice to have,â€ť but an essential aspect of the real new feminine and the real new masculine.
the raw feminine + masculine
We are becoming rebellious. Tired of playing by the rules. We grow resilient when we face the truth without accusation or blame. We crave real encounters based on the incredible openness that comes from being open and truthful.
WE have to bear the challenge of loving the other fully in their truth;
to bear our darker fantasies and doubts about the other,
knowing our wounds cannot protect us
or gain us ground in self worth.
A good team is based on perceiving our autono-ME /I and
stabilizing it. Know your own weakness, fears, offenses, your own foolishness, and then step in.
We want to foster new visions of shared goals for the women and men in this world.
We want shared visions for the feminine and the masculine, for the new women and the new men, for the collective and vibrating truth, for the new shores of human fulfillment.
100% SHAKTI + 100% SHIVA
FOR A Vision
of a common
A short love note.
I trust you know that you are on my mind always.
Behind the scenes we are joyfully developing what comes next in my universe.
For now, I have a small offering for you, in the spirit of the feminine leader initiated.
Do you remember theÂ Gospel of Feminine Leadership? It’s a three-part series* offering 108 pearls for the balance of the feminine. It’s so vitalÂ that we thought we’d put them all together, easily compiled for your inspiration.
Wild love always,
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